Hi! I'm Preston.

But you can also call me “wexx”. I'm a latex fetishist, kink educator, intersectional kink activist, event consultant, multilingual emcee, and fetish model available for hire.

Preston “wexx” So (he/they) is the first Asian international fetish titleholder and the first Mr. International Rubber (MIR) of color. He is Mr. International Rubber 20 (2017) and Mr. New England Rubber 2016. Follow his fetish and modeling pursuits on Instagram at @mirubberxx or @tight_connection.

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Event consulting

For 6+ years, I've organized both kink and professional tech events in three countries. I know what works, what doesn't, and how to run a great fetish event, including marketing, venues, programming, contests, and risk management.

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Risk management

A kink or fetish event isn't safe without a code of conduct, anti-harassment policy, and clear enforcement. With my 6+ years of professional event organizing experience, I can help make sure your event is safe for everyone.

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Event emceeing

With 4+ years of emceeing experience, I've hosted kink and fetish events in three languages and in four countries. Attendees compliment my dynamism, enthusiasm, humor, and ability to identify with any and all event audiences.

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Fetish modeling

For the past 4+ years, I've appeared in a range of publications modeling latex and fetish gear and have worked with some of the best-known fetish photographers in the industry. You can see some of my modeling work on Twitter.

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Which brands deserve your money?

Wondering which kink events and fetish vendors care about antiracism, inclusion, representation, and safety? See my 2021 Spend Guide, which I designed mostly for myself but may be useful for you too.

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